Some people might only say “KMS” to a very specific group of friends. For example, a girl might only message “KMS” to other teen girls that she’s known for a long time. If your friend finds a situation a little unlucky or inconvenient, they’ll say “KMS” to let off some steam. Your friend will probably talk about an everyday situation that annoys them a little but that they’ll forget later. For example, they may say, “I can’t believe 7/11 is out of Hot Cheetos. ❌ 🔥 KMS. " If they’ve had a tiring day, they might comment, “Am I ever going to get sleep?! 😖 KMS. ” If they’re feeling goofy, they may say something like, “You don’t follow me on IG?! KMS! 😜”

When your friend uses “KMS” to say “kill me slowly,” they’ll usually use a dry, sarcastic tone in their texts and posts. For example, they may tell you, “When are the leads in this show going to kiss already? It’s taking forever. KMS. ” If they’re frustrated with classes, they may say something like, “How much longer is this semester going to be? It feels like an eternity. KMS. ” If they’re in a sillier mood, they might make a comment like, “So who’s your crush?! I’ve waited all day for your text. KMS. ”

This individual might say “KMS” after describing their emotional pain and bring up crises that negatively affect them and impact their psychological well being. For example, the tone of their text will sound extremely sad. They might make a comment like, “I haven’t made any new friends since I’ve moved here. I feel so isolated. KMS. ” They may also talk about ways to hurt themselves or say that they don’t find meaning in life. An individual who has self-harmed may say something like, “Life feels so empty. Seriously. KMS. ”

“I never asked the cute guy I met overseas for his number! KMS. 🥺😭” “I’m old enough to pay taxes now! 💸 KMS. ” “My prom dress came today, but it’s the totally wrong color. KMS. 😡 📦”

“My aunt convinced my mom that I should do chores. 🧹 KMS. ” “KMS. I hate the actor they cast for my fave superhero. 👎🏽” “This coke is so flat. 🤢 KMS. I hate it. ”

“Wow. I’m ‘awesome’ at this game. 🙄 KMS. ” “This assignment is so easy that I’m still up at 1 AM working on it. 😩 KMS. ” “My little brother told my parents I was out past curfew. How fun! 🎉 KMS. ”

“I totally messed up my 360 in front of the whole skate park. 🛹💥 KMS. ” “I had so many quizzes today that I can’t think straight. 📚 😵‍💫 KMS. ” “Burned a whole batch of brownies for my bf’s birthday. 🔥🚒 KMS. ”

“My mom dragged me to my sister’s recital. It’s three hours long. 😣 KMS. ” “I have to watch three seasons of this show until it picks up, KMS. 🙄” “Three whole months until I graduate. ⏳ KMS…”

“You are such a drama king! 🤣 👑” “Tell me what you really think, though! 😉 😝” “Hey, you don’t need to be good at everything! Chill. 🧊” “Tomorrow will be better! ☀️” “Good things come to those who wait! 😉”

They’ve opened up about a condition such as depression or anxiety. They’ve shared that they are in extreme psychological or physical pain. They’ve provided details about how they would commit suicide. They know someone who has attempted or committed suicide. Their family has a history of suicide. They have been neglected or abused at home or at school. They worry they’re a “burden” or have “no reason” to live.

They’ve mentioned cutting, burning, or hitting themselves. They say they don’t have the energy for normal routines, like showering. They discuss starving themselves or reveal they suffer from an eating disorder. They say they abuse substances like alcohol or drugs. They talk about scars or wounds on their body.

It’s okay and actually necessary to “tell on” your friend if they’re at risk—when you share any chats that worry you, you can save their life. Share a local suicide hotline with your friend. Encourage them to call and open up about their struggles with a trained crisis counselor. Remain in touch with your friend and their support figures. If your friend keeps making comments that worry you, tell trusted adults right away. If you believe your friend is in danger, call emergency services so crisis professionals can respond. Then, contact your friend’s parents so your friend is not left alone.

In the US: call or text 988, the 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline[8] X Research source In the UK: call 116 123, the Samaritans helpline[9] X Research source or 0800 068 41 41, the HOPELineUK In Australia, call 13 11 14. The suicide call back service is 1300 659 467, Beyond Blue Support Service[10] X Research source In India, call 022-2552-1111 to reach the iCall helpline[11] X Research source For an international directory of suicide hotlines, visit The International Association for Suicide Prevention here or Befrienders Worldwide here. If your friend struggles with their mental health, continue to talk to them and encourage them to seek professional help.